We all strive to feel comfortable in our skin,
worthy and capable of giving and receiving love, and effective in making our own particular mark upon the world. Often, the obstacles to achieving these things are rooted in early relational experiences, in what we came to believe about ourselves and about what we could expect from the people closest to us. Most of the time, these assumptions have been with us for so long that we do not even realize they're there, influencing our thoughts and feelings and shaping our patterns of relating to others.
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I work with people who struggle with emotion regulation, identity, and relationship instability — and with high-functioning professionals who feel blocked around intimacy and empathy.
What brings people here
You may notice that relationships don't unfold the way you want them to, but you can't quite name why. Maybe you swing between craving closeness and pushing people away. Maybe anger arrives quickly and intensely, followed by shame or shutting down. Or you can function at a high level professionally while feeling detached, dissatisfied, or fundamentally alone in intimate relationships.
For some people, these struggles also show up around food, body image, or self-control — especially when emotions spike, when you feel rejected or criticized, or when self-judgment takes over.
Many of the people who come to my practice have tried therapy before. They're not new to insight, but the deeper patterns haven't shifted, or the gains didn't last. If that's familiar, it doesn't mean you're "bad at therapy." Some difficulties require a different kind of work.
How I work
I offer a form of psychotherapy that is active, engaged, and relational. This is not only a sympathetic ear. Over time, our work becomes a clear mirror: we track the patterns that keep you feeling lonely, stuck, or empty — especially the ones that show up between us in the therapy room — and we use those real-time moments to understand what's happening, creating the opportunity to try something different.
The work can be intense, but it is purposeful: aimed at building a more stable sense of self, greater emotional range, and more secure ways of relating. I tend to be a good fit for people who want depth, clarity, and accountability, along with an approach that is respectful, direct, and focused on lasting change.
Ultimately, there is great freedom and relief to be found in turning toward what we would rather push away. And, often, the thing most feared isn't as frightening when it is confronted.
Areas of focus
Common concerns that bring people to this kind of work.
Relationship Issues and Interpersonal Conflicts
Close relationships can be the site of our most persistent difficulties—the ones that make sense intellectually but don't seem to shift.
Anxiety and Mood Variability
Anxiety and mood variability are often signals—signs of something that hasn't had a chance to be named, rather than problems to be managed at the surface.
Eating Disorders, Body Image & Self-Destructive Tendencies
Eating and body image difficulties rarely exist in isolation. They often connect to questions of self-worth and control, and to what happens when strong emotions have nowhere else to go. Self-defeating patterns — whether expressed through food, the body, or behavior — tend to be deeply entrenched, rooted in early experiences and unconscious beliefs.
Low or Variable Self-Esteem; Shame; Emptiness
Fluctuating self-worth and feelings of emptiness often have deep roots—shaped by early relationships and experiences that continue to exert their influence outside of awareness. This work explores what drives those patterns rather than trying to override them.
Credentials
Education
Ph.D. Clinical Psychology
Long Island University, Brooklyn Campus (APA Accredited)
September 2017Advanced Psychoanalytic Candidate
New York University Postdoctoral Program in Psychotherapy and Psychoanalysis
September 2020–PresentSpecialized Training
Certified Practitioner of Transference Focused Psychotherapy (TFP)
TFP-New York
August 2024Eating Disorders, Compulsions & Addictions Training Program
William Alanson White Institute
May 2024Affiliations
IARPP
International Association for Relational Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy
ISTFP
International Society for Transference Focused Psychotherapy
APA
American Psychological Association
NYSPA
New York State Psychological Association
Begin the conversation
If you would like to discuss working together, please reach out by phone or email. I'm happy to answer questions about my practice and approach.
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