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Psychodynamic Psychotherapy

We all strive to feel comfortable in our skin,

worthy and capable of giving and receiving love, and effective in making our own particular mark upon the world. Often, the obstacles to achieving these things are rooted in early relational experiences, in what we came to believe about ourselves and about what we could expect from the people closest to us. Most of the time, these assumptions have been with us for so long that we do not even realize they're there, influencing our thoughts and feelings and shaping our patterns of relating to others.

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Annee Ackerman, Ph.D., Psychodynamic Psychotherapist
Annee Ackerman, Ph.D., Psychodynamic Psychotherapist

I work with people who struggle with emotion regulation, identity, and relationship instability — and with high-functioning professionals who feel blocked around intimacy and empathy.

What brings people here

You may notice that relationships don't unfold the way you want them to, but you can't quite name why. Maybe you swing between craving closeness and pushing people away. Maybe anger arrives quickly and intensely, followed by shame or shutting down. Or you can function at a high level professionally while feeling detached, dissatisfied, or fundamentally alone in intimate relationships.

For some people, these struggles also show up around food, body image, or self-control — especially when emotions spike, when you feel rejected or criticized, or when self-judgment takes over.

Many of the people who come to my practice have tried therapy before. They're not new to insight, but the deeper patterns haven't shifted, or the gains didn't last. If that's familiar, it doesn't mean you're "bad at therapy." Some difficulties require a different kind of work.

How I work

I offer a form of psychotherapy that is active, engaged, and relational. This is not only a sympathetic ear. Over time, our work becomes a clear mirror: we track the patterns that keep you feeling lonely, stuck, or empty — especially the ones that show up between us in the therapy room — and we use those real-time moments to understand what's happening, creating the opportunity to try something different.

The work can be intense, but it is purposeful: aimed at building a more stable sense of self, greater emotional range, and more secure ways of relating. I tend to be a good fit for people who want depth, clarity, and accountability, along with an approach that is respectful, direct, and focused on lasting change.

Ultimately, there is great freedom and relief to be found in turning toward what we would rather push away. And, often, the thing most feared isn't as frightening when it is confronted.

Credentials

Education

Ph.D. Clinical Psychology

Long Island University, Brooklyn Campus (APA Accredited)

September 2017

Advanced Psychoanalytic Candidate

New York University Postdoctoral Program in Psychotherapy and Psychoanalysis

September 2020–Present

Specialized Training

Certified Practitioner of Transference Focused Psychotherapy (TFP)

TFP-New York

August 2024

Eating Disorders, Compulsions & Addictions Training Program

William Alanson White Institute

May 2024

Affiliations

IARPP

International Association for Relational Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy

ISTFP

International Society for Transference Focused Psychotherapy

APA

American Psychological Association

NYSPA

New York State Psychological Association

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If you would like to discuss working together, please reach out by phone or email. I'm happy to answer questions about my practice and approach.

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